The importance of socializing children

Socialization is crucial to children’s development from an early age, shaping their skills and fostering companionship and empathy. Relationships teach young children about perspective, taking turns and meaningful friendships. A Baylor College of Medicine psychologist explains the importance of socialization for children while offering tips for parents of children who struggle in social settings. 

“[Socialization] gives the benefit of having peer support and friendship that can bolster sense of self,” said Dr. Eric Storch, professor and vice chair of psychology in the Menninger Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Baylor. “Friends not only provide emotional support, but also give feedback that, together with other important figures, helps shape the person you become.” 

Social interaction is necessary from day one. For babies and small children, spending time with family is crucial for development. As they start to age, they shift their social interaction to focus on peers and friends, while keeping family close. 

While there is no recipe for the perfect amount of socialization for a child, parents should focus on their children if they’re struggling in certain social situations and understand how they engage with others. This may be driven by anxiety or simply different interests. It might also stem from the pandemic, which impacted younger and older children. While most children were resilient and bounced back, some suffered more than others and are experiencing behavioral health issues. 

Storch suggests parents and caregivers, especially of children with behavioral health issues, take steps to help their child succeed in social situations:

1. Facilitate opportunities for children to be themselves. Every child is different; one might enjoy playing sports, while another might play Dungeons and Dragons. Personalize ways they can engage with others. 
2. Encourage variety and risk taking. Making sure your child gets out of their comfort zone in a safe fashion is helpful. 
3. Join groups. Group settings can facilitate different interactional and socialization skills. 
4. Consult a mental health professional. When you’re worried about a child’s ability to effectively socialize or you sense behavioral health concerns, such as anxiety and depression, reaching out to a doctor or mental health professional is beneficial.